spite spite /ˈspaɪt/

noun

1. () Feeling a need to see others suffer  ( malice , maliciousness , spitefulness , spite , venom )
   feeling a need to see others suffer
   
2. Malevolence by virtue of being malicious, spiteful or nasty  ( bitchiness [Informal] , cattiness , nastiness , spite , spitefulness )
   malevolence by virtue of being malicious, spiteful or nasty
   

verb

1. Hurt the feelings of  ( bruise , injure , offend , hurt , spite , wound )
   hurt the feelings of
    She hurt me when she did not include me among her guests
   She hurt me when she did not include me among her guests
    This remark really bruised my ego
   This remark really bruised my ego